The blind item below is by Mumbai Mirror and it’s about this actor and his daughter. We are sure it is this actor that they are talking about because out of all the couples that have been separated or divorced, he and his ex are the only ones who have moved on. His ex has found a nice guy and is not shy about going out with him in public so clearly this blind item is talking about him despite the word “recent” being mentioned in it. Plus, she is very much known for her talent just like he is.
The blind item is saying that this actor is having troubles with his first-born. It is normal to feel like this as a parent to a teenage daughter. There are other things at play here, obviously. Father cheated on mother, went on to date this young actress and all that. It is understandable that his daughter is going to have trouble processing all that. It is bad enough that you have to deal with being a teenager, going through change, and on top of that, dealing with whatever it is your father is doing. It is even harder for her because her parents are in the public eye.
From the moment, we saw this young lady with her coloured hair, we knew something was up. She went through several colours, even one that made her hair look like Storm from X-Men. Then again, when your mom owns a range of hair salons, you can get as many hair colours as you want on your hair as many times as you want it!
Being a teenager is tricky and it’s not easy for both the parents and the child. It is baffling to us how some parents forget what they themselves went through as teenagers. We always wonder why they don’t relate to what their child is going through as a teenager. Instead, they get upset and mad at why the child is behaving this way, why is she being ungrateful? This is a question that is very much commonly asked by parents. This is a sensitive time for any girl and usually during this time, emotions run high. Parents should be careful what they tell their kids during this time because these kids might just make a bad decision to retaliate against their parents.
We know we are saying this all here and it’s not like it is going to change anything. But still, all it takes is a little understanding. The problem is parents cannot digest the fact that their kid is growing up because one day the child is being loving and the next day the child starts showing a different colour altogether; it pretty much goes downhill from there. The hormonal change that happens to teenagers should be taught in school so that at least these kids get an idea on what they are going through. And we don’t mean teaching them what it is like scientifically, but more like on an emotional and behavioural level. Teach them that it is normal to feel this way, it is alright to feel frustrated with your parents and feel like they don’t understand you. Bottom line, it’s a phase and it will pass. This might just help decrease suicide cases among teenagers over ridiculous reasons, such as love failure (as they call it) and argument with parents and also stop them from running away from home and ending up in worst situations.
Anyways, here’s hoping for a better future for kids. Check out the blind item below. This actor still has the youngest one around, so he should enjoy all that loving and cutesy time before she gets hit by the teenage phase!
Bollywood Blind Item
A recent split between a good-looking actor and his talented wife had sent shockwaves through the industry, simply because their long-standing marriage seemed to be as solid as a rock. Although it appears that both parties involved have moved on in their respective love lives, their two children are still struggling. The older child is said to be quite a rebel, and barely speaks to the father. We hear the actor is quite troubled by her anger and is attempting to mend bridges with her.
OSOP Guesses
Actor: Farhan Akhtar
Wife: Adhuna Bhabani
Older Child: Shakya Akhtar
I hope the kids emerge out of it. I know a few people whose parents divorced when they were very young. The separation has scarred them emotionally. It needs strength to maintain sanity at such a small age amongst all this turmoil.
Here’s to hoping that the daughters are able to live a normal and happy life
Not surprised.
Now more than ever thanks to easy access to the internet and Social media, children are knowing what their fathers are capable of. They are knowing that their fathers are in actual fact cheats and/or exploiters of females. The children would most likely side with their mothers, especially when their mother had the backbone to leave the cheating husband. At least, Farhan’s daughter would know by her mother’s example that it is not ok to cheat on your wife.
At least, Adhuna had the guts to walk out without any drama. Some star wives are still deceiving themselves
Amen! Like Kajol madam (one example of many). Don’t get me wrong. I absolutely adore Kajol and have immense respect for her talent and bubbly self. However, becoming insecure and losing your identity/friends for the sake of a cheating husband is a very bad example to set for your children, especially her teen-aged daughter Nysa.
@AnanyaR, i was thinking about Kajol too as she’s an actress i admit i’m fond of. She comes across as strong and confident, that’s why it’s surprising that she’s remaining with a cheating husband (if the rumors are true).
But then i recall that her parents separated when she was very young. Could that be a reason why she’s staying back? Perhaps she experienced the negative aspects of being the daughter of separated parents and doesn’t want that for her daughter. Any child of divorced parents would understand what i’m talking about. Back in the days, it was almost a taboo for a woman to leave her marriage like Tanuja did so it’s possible that she experienced negative reactions from her father’s side of the family as a child given that she grew up with her mother’s relatives.and once admitted that she is closer to them.
It could also be for financial reasons as it’s possible she and her sister didn’t enjoy growing up with luxury as they would have if her mother had remained with their father. The fact that Tanuja had to go back to work when she separated from her husband, and Kajol had to start working from when she was less than 16 years old and didn’t finish high school compared to her sister who did her first film at 25 suggests this.
It could also be that she’s making a conscious effort not to end up like members of her family because i think Kajol’s great grandmother, grand mother and mother all separated from their husbands when their children were young.
These could be the reasons she chose to overlook her husband’s rumoured affairs. They are not excuses though. As you said, it’s not teaching her daughter the right thing to do.
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