Mumbai Mirror posted the blind item below, which is about a famous director/producer. It’s not too surprising considering how this director himself has admitted that he was messed up in the past. Maybe what he likes to do is a sign of a bad childhood or something. To him, 50 Shades of Grey is not that far from home. Speaking of him, he was in the news earlier this week for dating a girl twice younger than him and a couple of years older than his own daughter. Check out the blind item below to see who it’s about.
Bollywood Blind Item
A famed filmmaker and producer is known for his edgy and twisted films. But those who know him well say he likes things edgy and twisted in his private life as well. His bedroom tales are the sort that would make the most adventurous among us blush. Some of these involve bondage and suspension. An ex of his tells your diarist their relationship ended because she got tired of all the spanking.
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Filmmaker: Anurag Kashyap
“However, our point was since Anurag said he met that man again and forgave him, it wasn’t rape. A child is horrified and traumatized when rape is included.”
Okay you really really need better wording. Many victims of rape do forgive their rapists, some for religious reasons, some personal. Forgiving does not mean it actually wasn’t rape. The sentence doesn’t make sense. And yes it looks like I was wrong in that he was molested and not raped. I seem to have misread his interview in Hindi.
Also both rape and molestation of many minors is a serious offense in the eyes of the law. So is watching child porn.
Again, what we meant was if he was raped, his rapist would be in jail. Anurag wouldn’t be so calm in saying he met the man and had a talk with him. It’s a different situation for girls, who for some reason are asked to marry their rapist so that he can avoid jail time. We are familiar with the counselling procedure that goes on with children when they are sexually abused. Either way, this was about us saying that he was not raped because that’s not something that should be lightly put on anyone. The rule in counselling is to first identify what sort of sexual abuse did the child go through. We once made a mistake of saying “sodomised” instead of molested when referring to an incident that happened to someone else and the counsellor said that we should be specific when describing these things as these are not light accusations.
The simple point is that the girl got into a sexual relationship as a submissive, tried it, did not like it and got out. At no point does the blind say that the girl was coerced into it or harassed when she expressed a desire to get out. This seems fine to me and it can happen in any relationship. Also, yes, he was abused and it probably left a mark on him. There is no co-relation between that and his sexual preferences, which ideally, need to be private. Unless there is an allegation that something non-consensual happened. Sub-Dom relationships are very common and it’s perfectly natural to explore that side of your personality as long as it’s a mutual act.
Hi Admin, I just read this about the abuse Anurag suffered from:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/anurag-feels-child-abuse-pain/articleshow/5218400.cms
I didnt know about it either!
Thanks for sending us the link.
He did say he was raped in boarding school and that he was into erotic hindi pulp fiction from a young age.
While the school incident is horrifying I still don’t think it can excuse his attitude towards sex and drug use.
He said he was raped?
Yes, admin. Anurag said that he was a victim of child rape. Kalki, too
Kalki, we know. But Anurag? was it a man?
Yes, it was a grown man. In the Internet there are these interviews Anurag about this case
Ok, we just read his interview on the whole thing. It wasn’t rape, it was sexual abuse. As far we know, sexual abuse is touching here and there, but it’s not rape. Rape is a much more serious crime. So if he said he was raped, his attacker would have been in jail.
Excuse? Lol. It’s not some crime as long as it’s consensual. Regressive mentality.
Dear Admin, I know you didn’t mean for it to sound like that but you said something very hurtful in this comment. ‘It’s just a touch’ is the phrase predators use to justify/ normalise their actions to their victims. It’s never JUST ‘a touch here and there’. A 12 year old child being forced to touch a 42 year old man and give him some ‘pleasure’ is an experience that can scar him/ her for life. It might be different from rape in your opinion. It might be same as rape in someone else’s. I am not contesting either of those views. But it cannot be ‘a less serious crime’ at all. Child sex abuse statistics are horrifying in this country and some of those people might be reading your site. I understand being a admin for a social forum must be a tricky subject. But it might be best to keep in mind everyone’s interests and choose our wordings carefully. Many Thanks for giving us this space to let our views be heard.
Yes, we do understand. However, our point was since Anurag said he met that man again and forgave him, it wasn’t rape. A child is horrified and traumatized when rape is included. According to the law, rape is a very serious offence with jail time. That’s what we meant. Obviously, child abusers are a$$holes/beasts and personally we think they should be put in jail because it’s an incurable disease they have. Unfortunately, all child molesters or abusers are let off the hook when they get caught. Sorry if our comment got lost in translation but we were only trying to say Anurag wasn’t raped, he was molested.
New blind. Please publish it today. why Aunt Pinkvilla think that are again about Sushant? What movie is spoken about here? It does not seem like Sushant, maybe Sid? I’m intrigued
Here: https://www.oneshotoneplace.com/blind-item-2017-bollywood-june-8/
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